Top Mistakes to Avoid When Filing for Divorce in California

Filing for divorce in the state of California can be an incredibly challenging experience, especially on an emotional and mental level. The process often brings overwhelming feelings of uncertainty, stress, and fear about the future. Beyond the emotional toll, divorcing spouses must also navigate complicated financial matters, legal deadlines, child custody decisions, and the division of assets. With so many moving parts, it’s easy to make mistakes that can negatively affect the outcome of your case, mistakes that may be difficult or even impossible to undo later. Whether you’re just starting the process or already deep into it, being informed about common pitfalls can help you protect your rights and make sound decisions.

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1. Hiding Assets or Failing to Disclose Finances

While it may seem like a shortcut to protect your interests, failing to fully disclose your financial information can have severe legal and financial consequences.

You risk losing credibility and the ability to negotiate fairly.
It is illegal and can lead the court to award hidden assets to your spouse.
This can result in sanctions, fines, and even criminal penalties in some cases

2. Missing Deadlines and or Ignoring Legal Action

Failing to respond or being late in responding to documents, missing court dates, or not filling out required paperwork can hurt your case.

Examples Include:

Not responding to the divorce petition within 30 days.
Missing hearings or court deadlines
Ignoring financial disclosures or temporary orders

3. Waiting too long to take action

Delaying the divorce process can lead to unintended legal and financial consequences.

You could:

Lose access to marital assets
Jeopardize your custody rights, especially if children are involved
Be held responsible for new debts incurred by your spouse

4. Representing yourself without an attorney

Not having an attorney when filing may lead you to many disadvantages. Trying to navigate a divorce without legal help may seem like a way to save money, but it often leads to costly mistakes.

Losing valuable assets or properties
Accepting unfair arrangements
Being held to the same legal standards as an attorney

5. Letting Emotions Drive Custody Decisions

Divorce is a very emotional time to go through, especially when children are involved, but in California, court orders focus primarily on the best interest of the child, not the parents’ emotions.

Common mistakes include:

Refusing to co-parent or communicate
Using children to get back at your spouse
Creating unnecessary conflict that harms outcomes

6. Rushing the Process

Divorce can be emotionally draining, and some people try to speed through it just to be done. But rushing can lead to overlooking important issues like asset division, custody arrangements, or support calculations.

You might settle for less than you deserve
Can lead to you missing hidden assets or debts
Custody agreements can be poorly planned

Avoid Mistakes When Filing for Divorce

Suppose you need more guidance and assistance in filing for a divorce. In that case, you can get that help from an experienced family law attorney here at Roberts and Zatlin, who will make sure you and your family are our top priority and will help give you the best support during court. Contact us today or set up a free consultation.